When we settle at the table, I make a point of sitting beside her - but not too close - instead of across from her. I wasn't planning for this visit, so I haven't really got anything. And, besides, it will be a good learning experience for both of us. Probably.

Assuming we don't make complete arses of ourselves.

"Maybe one of the librarians can help? They seem to know a lot about these sorts of things, anyway."